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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 14

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

The last excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

driving at night

I rather like it that the last installment of this ‘spectacular’ and ‘inspiring’ Packaging Your Imagination’ keynote is landing at the start of the new year. I hope it will inspire you in whatever your undertakings may be this year…

When Karen called me last week, about today, she asked of me only that I “be inspiring”. My first thought was to share with you one of my favourite quotes about writing, one that I go back to time and again, when the rough and tumble of the writing life tosses all my sock fluff and whatever fluff I might be writing together in one dull, grey lump in the lint trap of my heart.

This is E.L. Doctorow. He speaks of writing a novel, but what he says applies to lots of life.

Writing a novel is like driving a car at night. You can’t see any farther ahead than your headlights shine, but you can make the whole trip that way.

What Doctorow says reassures me that indeed I can keep on with this troublesome project, I can go on with whatever challenging journey I happen to be on, if today, I don’t worry about what might be beyond where my headlights are shining.

The morning after Karen called me about taking on today’s keynote, I woke in the wee hours with another idea – about the inspiring nature of Sock Fluff. I got up and made some notes, then, at 6:30 or so, I went back to bed with a cup of tea, to read a chapter of the book I was caught up in then.

Here is one paragraph of that chapter. This is narrator Marion Stone, telling readers about another road. It’s the kind of prose that, for me, begs to be read aloud.

I pushed out the wooden shutters of my bedroom window and climbed onto the ledge. Sunshine flooded the room. By noon the temperature would reach seventy-five degrees, but for the moment I shivered in my bare feet. From my perch, I could see beyond Missing’s east wall onto a quiet meandering road which descended and then disappeared, the hills rising just beyond, as if the road had gone underground before it emerged in the distance as a mere thread. It wasn’t a road we traveled or even one that I knew how to get to, and yet it was a view I felt I owned. On the left side, a fortresslike wall flanked the road, receding with it, struggling to stay vertical. Giant clusters of bougainvillea spilled over, brushing the white shamas of the few pedestrians. There was a quality to this pellucid first light and the vivid colors that made it impossible to imagine trouble.

If you’ve read Cutting for Stone by Abraham Verghese, you know that the road will feature in Marion’s life again later in the story. Even if you haven’t, you can probably guess that it will, because of the weight he gives it in his description. And as you can likely guess, there will be trouble. Amazon.ca affiliate link

I read that paragraph from Chapter 23 of the book and I came to this thought:

There is nothing more inspiring, if you’re an artist – or more instructive – than exposure to the work of other artists. It’s not a very playful thought. Besides, just as I love symmetry on my odometer, so I do, to some extent, in my writing, whether a picture book story, a biography, a short story or novel-length work of fiction – or a speech. So, let’s get back to where we began.

I doubt there’s another poem about sock fluff to be found anywhere, but surely we can get back to where sock fluff is most often found? Indeed. Another of my childhood favourites fits the bill perfectly.  And so, to close, “Mud” by Polly Chase Boyden:

mud poem

Thanks, everyone, for hanging in for my Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff.

Photo: The road down Saxa Vord at night (Mike Pennington) / CC BY-SA 2.0

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 13

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, December 5th, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

Here’s one more bit of ‘sock fluff’, from my youth. Feel free to join me if you know it.

The Highwayman by Alfred Noyes

Don’t you just love the rhythm, the language, the passion, and the innuendo in Part 1 of “The Highwayman” by Alfred Noyes? Even studying it in school as a teenager didn’t spoil it for me.

Good poetry, like all the poems I’ve read today, begs to be read aloud. And so does good prose. Luckily for me, I live with someone who doesn’t mind my interrupting his reading with “Listen to this.”

It is time to be concluding this talk.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 12

By Kathy · Comments (4)
Wednesday, November 7th, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

All the bits of sock fluff I’ve inspected so far have come from socks worn in the second half of my life. I’m now going to pull out a few bits of fluff from the first half of my life. I think you’ll agree that it follows well after these thoughts about the first and second half of my life – so far.

This is a poem I could recite by heart when I was nine years old.

Father William

No one made me memorize “Father William” by Lewis Carroll. I just wanted to because I liked it. I still do.

Here’s another of my favourite poems from even earlier in my life. I came to know it, and “Father William” too, through a big fat book called The Illustrated Treasury of Children’s Literature.It has a light blue, hard cover and a dark blue spine, and an inscription inside it reveals that it was a gift to my brother in 1955 but it somehow, some years ago, came to be in my possession. Don’t tell him. I don’t want to have to give it back.

The Illustrated Treasury of Children’s Literature

The Goops

That’s “The Goops”, originally from Goops and How to Be Them by Gelett Burgess.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 11

By Kathy · Comments (2)
Wednesday, October 3rd, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

One of the greatest pleasures I know, while driving, is watching my odometer in anticipation of a symmetrical reading. I find beauty in numbers like 010 010 and 088 880. Even 135 351 is lovely, or 075 075. Sometimes I’ll get into my car, a Honda Fit, and realize that on this trip to Zehrs in Guelph or during this drive into Hamilton to visit my sister, my odometer will hit such a number. I’ve yet to meet anyone who understands my excitement on seeing 056 560 or my utter disappointment upon realizing, at 090 112 say, that I have – distracted by traffic or passing scenery or my own thoughts – missed the magic moment of 090 090.

odometer going from 99999 to 100000

Why am I telling you this now? Because last week, trying to put myself back to sleep, on the night I was asked if I could do today’s keynote, I worked something out that kind of fits with this obsession of mine.

I have lived exactly, to the month, one half of my life since my first book was accepted for publication, and my second. That’s right. Since January 1982, I have lived for exactly the same number of months as I did before that moment when I sat in Anne Millyard’s living room with her and Rick Wilks and realized that the sentence “we like your stories well enough that we’d like to meet you” – in their response to my submission – actually meant that they wanted to publish them. I was three months shy of my thirtieth birthday then and I’m now six months shy of my sixtieth. Fascinating? It is to me.

:)

Photo: Photo with CC license. Taken from Flickr. Author: Paulimus J

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 10

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, September 5th, 2012

This excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011 will make most sense to you if you’ve read Part 9 of “An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”…

beach

Bring me back something interesting, Gran whispers as I head off to the beach.

If I could, I would bring you the plick plock pluck of pebbles at the water’s edge.
I would bring you the swish of waves sneaking up and the hiss of waves shrinking back.

If I could, I would bring you a sleek wet seal slithering into the sea.
I would bring you curving porpoise fins, too, arcing out and in, out and in, out and in.

If I could, I would bring you a gull riding the wind, hanging still on a cloud.
I would bring you the breeze on my cheeks, Gran — oh, if only I could.

If I could, I would bring you pale shafts of light poking like God through the clouds.
And from the huge grey ocean I would bring to you shiny puddles of silvery sun.

If I could, I would bring you the shape left behind by a star burrowing into the sand.
I would bring you the tickle of foam creeping up and around in between my toes.

If I could, I would bring you the salt seaweed smell of kelp in slippery heaps.
And rocks, like a naked lady asleep, I would bring you, if only I could.

If I could, I would bring you turquoise and purple from a quivery tidal pool.
I would bring all this from the beach, if I could, in my pockets and in my pack.

But here, Gran, is all I could bring, in my arms. I’ll bring more next time I go back.

Now, I’m going to tell you something about me that very few people in this room will know. The information is not found on my website, I’ve never blogged about it, and it’s not included in the author bio on any of my thirty or so books. None of my characters has, to date, shared this quirk. Which is this:

How’s that for a cliff-hanger ending to a blog post? Part 11 of “An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff” will be posted the first week of October.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 9

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, August 1st, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

I would never write another poem
if only I could show you
in a few perfect lines
what the touch of your fingers
on my aging cheek
means

That’s “Poem for Sonia” from Hold the Rain in Your Hands: Poems New and Selected by Glen Sorestad.

I came to know Glen’s poetry because he published my first young adult novel, and my second, and my first young adult short story, too, come to think of it. He’s both a poet and co-founder of Thistledown Press.

If Glen could, through his writing, show his wife what the touch of her hand on his aging cheek means, he would, he says, never write another poem. Intended or not, there’s an implication that this is what he’s been trying to do in everything he’s ever written, whatever he seems to be writing about. And if he could just get it right, he would stop. The poem certainly reveals what matters to him, most deeply.

What do you most wish you could express through your art?

When I ask myself that question, the first things to come to mind have to do with my children: how it felt to be separated from my firstborn child after his birth. He was born at 2 in the afternoon and it was 9:30 the next morning before I held him. How it felt to nurse my daughter in the quiet middle of the night and later, to pack away her baby clothes. And I wish I could use words to make certain people who have been important in my life known to others. Like Lois Gordon – Antilo to those closest to her, whether she was their aunt or not. She may feature in my writing someday, but she hasn’t yet. In planning this talk, I found I couldn’t even come up with a sentence or two that might give you some small sense of who she was and what I would and wouldn’t like to emulate about her as I grow older. But maybe someday, when I can shuck off my fear of getting her wrong, I’ll muster up the courage to take a stab at it.

Lois Gordon aka Antilo

But perhaps the title of Glen Sorestad’s poetry collection, Hold the Rain in Your Hands, sums up – poetically but rather pessimistically – what all writing is. Perhaps we are all trying to hold the rain in our hands each time we write, and that’s why our manuscripts somehow fall short, year after year, of becoming what we know in our heart of hearts they could be. And would be, if only we had the skill. Even those that get good enough to be published and get nice reviews.

What keeps me going as a writer is the belief that, maybe someday, if I keep on practising my craft, maybe someday I’ll write something as wonderful as I know it could be.

I have a poem in my files that I’ve sometimes thought might be coming almost close, but several lines continue to elude me. I wrote it after Peter and I traveled to Scotland with Antilo in 1997. She was 91 years old and full of life, but not mobile enough to get down to the beach near the cottage we’d rented.

You can read the poem I wrote her in “An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff” – Part 10 the first week of next month.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 8

By Kathy · Comments (2)
Wednesday, July 4th, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

An excerpt from "Something from Nothing"

I hope everyone here knows how Grandpa took Joseph’s blanket and with his scissors and his needle turned Joseph’s worn out blanket into a wonderful . . . jacket. And how through the years it became a vest, a tie, a handkerchief, and a button, each one of them wonderful. And how, one day:

An excerpt from "Something from Nothing"

Something from Nothing Of course – because this is a room full of creators – you know, even if you haven’t read Something from Nothing by Phoebe Gilman, that Joseph’s mother and grandfather are mistaken, because of course making something from nothing is what we do.

And that’s one of the rewards – the thrills – of the creative life that simply can’t be beat.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 7

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, June 6th, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

I feel like the ground in winter,
Hard, cold, dark, dead, unyielding.

Then hope pokes through me
Like a crocus.

This poem by Jean Little called simply “Surprise” expresses how I feel when a story isn’t working. “I feel like the ground in winter, Hard, cold, dark, dead, unyielding.”  And how that breakthrough moment feels, when I know there’s still hope that the story will sing. “Then hope pokes through me Like a crocus.”

Of course, the poem isn’t just about writing, so one year I typed it up several times, on tiny pieces of paper, and tucked them inside small tree ornaments, to give as gifts to members of my family. Don’t tell Jean, okay. Some writers would take what I did as a compliment. Jean would see it as infringement of copyright. She might even demand a royalty. And I can’t blame her. It’s hard to make a living at this writing business, no matter how many years we’re at it. It’s a good thing it has its other rewards.

Like having the flexibility in my day-to-day life and a kind enough boss (that’s me) that I can usually, if I feel like it, choose to go play in the garden or take a long walk in the woods near my home, on the first sunny day after a week of rain.

Like meeting a teenage fan at her parents’ home in New Brunswick after exchanging letters with her for some years, starting when she’d read the first Marie-Claire book. And now that she’s almost finished high school, having her confide in me, as we walked the Tantramar Marsh, stuff about her boyfriend and how she’s dealing with being bullied.

Kathy Stinson and Joanna Perkin

And, of course . . .

Do you think you know the other reward I would almost have to mention? If you’re not a subscriber to my blog, be sure to come back here the first week of next month for the next installment of my Packaging Your Imagination keynote.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 6

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, May 2nd, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

My son is in the bathroom shaving
the water runs. I hear the scrape
across his upper lip, the rinse, the tap
three times on the side of the sink
which makes me wonder if this is some
primordial or innate rhythm all men
are born to repeat this razor tapping
male music ritual.

I wonder this of course
so I won’t stop to wonder
how this child of mine
grew this hair upon his face
it wasn’t much a newspaper smudge
of a mustache
but he told me it was time

It is time
that I am weeping for
how once this child
whose every body part was mine
to clean and tend to
is now a young man
who locks the bathroom door

Can you identify the poet who wrote that poem, “Coming of Age”?

It appears in a book called In this house are many women, and it’s by . . . Sheree Fitch.

I chose this bit of sock fluff to show you for two reasons.

I have a son who inspired one of the first manuscripts I dared submit to a publisher. Annick published Big or Little? in 1983, with illustrations by Robin Baird Lewis. They sold rights in French, Spanish, and Japanese, kept it in print for 25 years, and then issued an updated version with illustrations by Toni Goffe. Matt’s bathroom door has been in his own home for almost half his life now, but Sheree’s poem still has the power to move me.

Matt Stinson

There’s a song that takes similar hold of me with regard to my daughter, who, thirty years ago, inspired Red is Best – now available, at last, as a board book. And that song is (don’t worry, I won’t try to sing it here) “Rise Again” by the Rankins. It happened to be playing as Kelly and I took down the Christmas tree, the first Christmas she was no longer living at home, and I turned the cd player up loud, set it to keep repeating the song, and we belted it out at the top of our lungs as we finished taking down the tree.

Kelly and Kathy Stinson

My kids were instrumental in kick-starting my writing career and my family continues to be a rudder for me as I navigate the waters of my life.

The other reason for “Coming of Age” and not “Monkeys in My Kitchen” or “Toes in My Nose” is because it’s not what many readers expect from Sheree Fitch. She established herself well as the author of “lip-slippery” poems for kids, but I’m glad she didn’t allow herself to be pigeon-holed by what she achieved recognition for first. Instead, she writes about things that matter to her, intensely, that she can’t do justice to in the form that had made her popular. (Sheree not only writes poetry for adults but fiction for teenagers, as well.)

I know how hard it can be to get people to notice that you’ve changed direction, artistically, because I’ve done that too. Not that the public recognition is the reason for doing what we do. People like Sheree Fitch and me, Anne Laurel Carter and Margaret Mahy (a New Zealand writer who has long inspired me with the breadth of her work) follow creative impulses where they lead us.

It used to be that if I got an idea for a certain kind of book that I hadn’t written before, I’d say to myself ‘Oh I can’t write that, I don’t write…’ historical fiction, biography, whatever. Not all my pursuits have been successful – I have a psychological thriller in my files that’s not ready to submit to a publisher and may never be. But I’ve had fun with it and success with enough other things I dared try my hand at – partly just to see if I could – that I can’t imagine ever again saying, ‘oh I don’t write…’ any kind of story that might present itself.

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“An Intimate Examination of Sock Fluff”
Part 5

By Kathy · Comments (0)
Wednesday, April 4th, 2012

The next excerpt from my PYI keynote in a series that started in December 2011…

After English Class by Jean Little

That was “After English Class” from Hey World, Here I Am! by Jean Little.

In 1987, I had the welcome opportunity to travel with Jean in England, when the Canadian Children’s Book Centre organized an exchange of Canadian and British authors. Jean and I, along with Monica Hughes and Camilla Gryski – and Katherine Paterson acting as Jean’s guide dog – had tea with the legendary Rosemary Sutcliffe. We dined with Phillipa Pearce, Jan Mark, Jill Paton Walsh, and John Rowe Townsend. We had a grand time.

Kathy Stinson with Monica Hughes in England

Years later, when Jean and I had books on a Red Cedar Award list, BC CANSCAIPer Ainslie Manson kidnapped us after the ceremony – neither of us won – and took us up to her cabin in the Cariboo.

Moments like these are important to me as a solitary craftsperson. I need time alone, to write, to muse, to stew – I need it desperately – but I need my community of like-minded people, too, people who will share the burden of my disappointments and celebrate with me my achievements, whether its publication of a book or the successful nailing of a single chapter. I didn’t know that, when Audrey McKim urged me to attend my first CANSCAIP meeting, back in the early 80s, or when Barbara Greenwood welcomed me, or when Claire Mackay began sending me clippings of reviews of my books. Or even when Claire delighted when Peter and I revealed to her, at a post Book Week party in 1984, that we were seeing each other. But I know it now. And thanks to CANSCAIP, that community extends right across the country. Ainslie Manson in BC has become one of my best friends, and it was at a CANSCAIP meeting that I first met Budge Wilson, a Nova Scotia writer who has also become a good friend.

It was also at a CANSCAIP meeting that I first met Nova Scotia writer Jill MacLean, when she came to speak about writing retreats. After that meeting, she applied to the Seaside Writing Workshop/Retreat that Peter and I have been offering for six years now. (She had actually referred to it during her talk.)

All this to say that joining CANSCAIP, as a Member or as a Friend, is a great way to expand your circle of like-minded, creative friends who will understand your ups and downs – and what’s important to you: your sock fluff.

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